{"id":3828,"date":"2019-08-28T11:20:55","date_gmt":"2019-08-28T09:20:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/?p=3828"},"modified":"2026-02-25T11:19:37","modified_gmt":"2026-02-25T09:19:37","slug":"focused-at-work-during-personal-crisis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/productivity\/focused-at-work-during-personal-crisis\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Stay Focused at Work When Having a Personal Crisis"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"intro-text\">It\u2019s relatively easy to focus at work under <i>normal<\/i> conditions &#8211; but, what if you\u2019re struggling to keep your focus while distracted with a personal crisis?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Perhaps you\u2019ve just broken off an engagement or ended a long relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or, you\u2019ve just found out that your partner is cheating on you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What\u2019s worse, perhaps you\u2019ve just learned that a close family member has been diagnosed with a serious illness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whatever your personal challenge may be, concentration at work likely becomes secondary, or near impossible when you have such problems on your mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, you still have to keep your composure and ease yourself back to work eventually &#8211; here are 5 tips on how you can do that:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"tip-1-think-about-whether-you-should-share\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #1 &#8211; Think about whether you should share<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Sharing your personal problems at work has its fair share of pros and cons. So, it\u2019s best if you\u2019re selective about what you reveal at your office.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you feel better when you share, talking with select colleagues will make you more comfortable at work and thus more likely to <a href=\"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/productivity\/increase-productivity\/\">be productive<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, if the thought of additional questions and advice makes you feel uncomfortable, you can send a formal letter to HR instead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re experiencing a serious personal problem or shock, your HR department can make arrangements with your boss\/supervisor\/manager about:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>giving you some extra <a href=\"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/business\/how-to-track-team-vacations-and-time-off\/\">time off<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>reducing your working hours for a time<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>In either case, you\u2019ll need to <a href=\"https:\/\/clockify.me\/time-tracking-best-practices\">track your time<\/a> to keep all your reduced work hours or time off accounted for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n<div class=\"banner banner-dark clockify-gradient-default\">\n    <div class=\"banner-text lg:pr-[6rem]\">\n        <span class=\"h4 text-lg translation-block mb-0\">Free time tracker<\/span>\n        <p class=\"translation-block mt-1 mb-3\">Time tracking software used by millions. Clockify is a time tracker and timesheet app that lets you track work hours across projects.<\/p>\n\n        <div class=\"banner-buttons d-flex gap-4 align-items-center translation-block justify-content-center justify-content-sm-start\">\n            <a class=\"bg-white rounded px-3 py-1 text-gray-dark\" href=\"https:\/\/app.clockify.me\/en\/signup\" target=\"_blank\">Sign up<\/a>\n\n                    <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n\n    <div class=\"banner-image banner-image-middle \">\n        <picture>\n            <source srcset=\"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/cake-blog\/theme\/images\/banners\/clockify\/default@2x.png 2x\" alt=\"Illustration\"  media=\"(min-width: 1022px)\" \/>\n            <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/wp-content\/themes\/cake-blog\/theme\/images\/banners\/clockify\/default.png\"  alt=\"Illustration\" \/>\n        <\/picture>\n    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n    \n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"tip-2-set-some-basic-boundaries-with-your-family\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #2 &#8211; Set some basic boundaries with your family<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Some people feel more comfortable if they face their problems and tragedies head-on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Some feel better if they go back to work as soon as possible, to take their minds off of personal worries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In any case, you\u2019ll need to set boundaries with friends and family who&#8217;ll want to check in with you at work more frequently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, explain it to your loved ones when you won\u2019t be able to answer the phone at work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, tell them whether you think that phone calls from them would be beneficial for you (and your productivity), or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In any case, tell them about your current work assignments, and how much time and focus you\u2019ll need for them. Moreover, explain how they can reach you if there\u2019s an emergency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"tip-3-consider-your-companys-benefits\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #3 &#8211; Consider your company\u2019s benefits<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Companies usually offer an array of employee benefits some employees aren\u2019t even aware of.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, when you encounter a specific personal problem, ask whether your company offers childcare, counseling, or even legal services you could use to help you out in difficult times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your company offers the benefits you need, you\u2019ll be able to ease some of your emotional burdens and focus on your work with fewer worries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"tip-4-be-self-compassionate\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #4 &#8211; Be self-compassionate<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Getting back to work at full speed after a major life crisis can be a serious challenge. So, don\u2019t forget to be patient with yourself if you\u2019re having trouble getting up to speed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>To make work more manageable, practice your <a href=\"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/productivity\/improve-time-management-skills\/\">time management skills<\/a> and divide <a href=\"https:\/\/clockify.me\/to-do-list-templates\">your to-do list<\/a> into groups of 3 tasks. Each group will be a separate milestone you\u2019ll need to reach.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After you reach each milestone, you can call your family to check up on them, or meditate for 15 minutes, to relax and recharge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a result, you\u2019ll likely feel more comfortable working &#8211; considering that you\u2019ll be pursuing your designated reward for the milestones you reach.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>On the other hand, some people actually feel <i>better<\/i> if they have something like a work assignment to help them take their mind off of personal issues.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, keeping focus at work may actually help you process and overcome your shock easier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"tip-5-take-some-time-off\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #5 &#8211; Take some time off<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes, the best you can do for yourself and your work is to ease your personal crisis <em>by taking a few days off to rest and reconcile your thoughts.&nbsp;<\/em>You can use this time off to:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>spend time with your family<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>talk to your friends<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>reflect on your problems<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>try to get your personal life back on track<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>You\u2019ll feel better if you do, and you&#8217;ll be able to carry out your tasks with more ease, focus, and dedication once you get back to work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"custom-btn\"><a href=\"https:\/\/app.clockify.me\/en\/signup\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Get started with Clockify<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 id=\"wrapping-up\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Wrapping up\u2026<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Personal crises are often difficult to overcome, especially if you continue working throughout them. But, you can make your obligations more manageable if you:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Consider sharing with colleagues<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Make arrangements with your family over calling you at work<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Make use of the right company benefits<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Be kind to yourself<\/strong><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Take a couple of days off<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>This way, you\u2019ll make the most of the current situation in relation to your work &#8211; and, maybe even feel better knowing you have an obligation you can focus on instead of your personal problems.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"has-background\">\n<p><b>\ud83d\udca1 Clockify pro tip<\/b><br>Interested in improving your focus under various conditions at work? Check out our other focus guides:<\/p>\n<p>\u2192 <a href=\"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/productivity\/stay-focused-at-work\/\">How to stay focused at work \u2013 20 quick focus tips<\/a><br>\u2192&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/productivity\/stay-focused-on-computer\/\">How to stay focused when working on the computer<\/a><br>\u2192&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/productivity\/stay-focused-during-holidays\/\">How to stay focused at work during the holidays<\/a><br>\u2192 <a href=\"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/productivity\/stay-focused-approaching-retirement\/\">How to stay focused when approaching retirement<\/a><br>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Rarely anyone feels motivated enough to stay focused at work during a personal crisis &#8211; but, here are the 5 ways how you can do it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":5275,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3828","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-productivity"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3828","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3828"}],"version-history":[{"count":29,"href":"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3828\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":36108,"href":"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3828\/revisions\/36108"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5275"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3828"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3828"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/clockify.me\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3828"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}